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Title: What am I doing wrong? Á¦¸ñ: Á¦°¡ ¹» À߸øÇÏ°í ÀÖÁÒ?
Okay, I¡¯m tired of beating around the bush. Àúµµ ÀÌÁ¦ ºùºù µ¹·Á ¸»Çϴ°ſ¡ ÁöÃƽÀ´Ï´Ù.
I¡¯m a beautiful (spectacularly beautiful) 25 year old girl. Àü ¾ÆÁÖ ¾Æ¸§´Ù¿î 25»ì ¿©¼ºÀÌ°í¿ä.
I¡¯m articulate and classy. Àü ¶È¶ÈÇÏ°í ¼¼·ÃµÇ¾ú½À´Ï´Ù.
I¡¯m not from New York. Àü ´º¿å Ãâ½ÅÀÌ ¾Æ´Ï°í¿ä.
I¡¯m looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million a year. Àϳ⿡ ÃÖ¼Ò 5¾ïÀÌ»óÀº ¹ö´Â ³²¼º°ú °áÈ¥ÇÏ°í ½Í½À´Ï´Ù.
I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don¡¯t think I¡¯m overreaching at all. ÀÌ»óÇÑ ¼Ò¸®Ã³·³ µé¸®½Ã°ÚÁö¸¸, ´º¿å½Ã¿¡¼± 5¾ï ¹ö´Â°Ç Áß°£Á¤µµ¹Û¿¡ ¾ÈµÇ´Ï, ³Ê¹« °úÇÑ°É ¿øÇÏ´Â°Ç ¾Æ´Ï¶ó°í º¾´Ï´Ù.
Are there any guys who make 500K or more on this board? Ȥ½Ã 5¾ï ÀÌ»ó ¹ö´Â ³²ÀÚµé Áß ÀÌ °Ô½ÃÆÇ ÀÐÀ¸½Ã´ÂºÐ ÀÖÀ¸½Å°¡¿ä?
Any wives? Ȥ½Ã ±×·± ºÐÀÇ ºÎÀκÐÀÌ¿ä?
Could you send me some tips? ÀúÇÑÅ× ÆÁÀ» Á» º¸³»ÁÖ½Ç ¼ö ÀÖ³ª¿ä?
I dated a business man who makes average around 200 - 250. Àü¿¡ Àϳ⿡ 2¾ï~2¾ï5õ¸¸¿øÀ» ¹ö´Â »ç¾÷°¡¿Í »ç±Í¾ú¾ú´Âµ¥.
But that¡¯s where I seem to hit a roadblock. 250,000 won¡¯t get me to central park west. Àå¾Ö¹°ÀÌ º¸ÀÌ´õ¶ó°í¿ä. 2¾ï5õ¸¸¿øÀ¸·Î´Â ¼¾Æ®·² ÆÄÅ© ¼ÂÊ(CPW)¿¡ »ì ¼ö ¾ø¾î¿ä.
I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she¡¯s not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. Á¦ ¿ä°¡ Ŭ·¡½º¿¡ ÅõÀÚÀºÇà¿ø°ú °áÈ¥ÇÑ ¿©¼ºÀÌ Àִµ¥ Tribeca (¸ÇÇØÆ° ³²ÂÊ ºÎÀÚÁö¿ª)¿¡ »ì¾Æ¿ä. ±Ùµ¥ ±× ¿©¼ºÀº Àú¸¸Å ÀÌ»ÚÁöµµ ¾Ê°í, ´ë´ÜÇÑ ÃµÀçµµ ¾Æ´Ï¿¡¿ä.
So what is she doing right? How do I get to her level? ±×·±µ¥ ±× ¿©¼ºÀº ¾î¶»°Ô ÇÑ°ÅÁÒ? ¾î¶»°Ô ±× ¿©¼º°ú °°Àº ·¹º§ÀÌ µÉ ¼ö ÀÖÀ»±î¿ä.
Here are my questions specifically: ±¸Ã¼ÀûÀ¸·Î ¸»ÇÏÀÚ¸é:
Where do you single rich men hang out? Give me specifics- bars, restaurants, gyms µ¶½Å ºÎÀÚ ³²¼ºµéÀº ¾îµð¼ ÁÖ·Î ³ë³ª¿ä? ¹Ù? ·¹½ºÅä¶û? ÇコÀå?
What are you looking for in a mate? Be honest guys, you won¡¯t hurt my feelings ¦À¸·Î´Â ¾î¶² »ç¶÷À» ã°í ÀÖ³ª¿ä? ¼ÖÁ÷È÷ ¸»ÇØÁÖ¼¼¿ä. »óóÀÔÁö ¾ÊÀ»²²¿ä.
Is there an age range I should be targeting (I¡¯m 25)? ƯÁ¤ ¿¬·É´ë¸¦ ã¾ÆºÁ¾ß ÇÒ±î¿ä? (Àü 25»ìÀÔ´Ï´Ù)
Why are some of the women living lavish lifestyles on the upper east side so plain? ¿Ö ºÏµ¿ºÎ¿¡ »çÄ¡½º·± »îÀ» »ç´Â ¿©¼ºµéÀº ¸î¸îÀº ¾ÆÁÖ Æò¹üÇÒ±î¿ä?
I¡¯ve seen really ¡®plain jane¡¯ boring types who have nothing to offer married to incredibly wealthy guys. ³Ê¹« Æò¹üÇؼ ºÎÀÚ ³²Æí¿¡°Ô º°·Î ÇØÁÙ¸¸ÇÑ°Ô ¾ø´Â ±×·± ŸÀÔÀ» ¸î¸î ºÃ°Åµç¿ä.
I¡¯ve seen drop dead gorgeous girls in singles bars in the east village. µ¿ºÎÁö¿ª¿¡ µ¶½ÅµéÀÌ ¸ðÀÌ´Â ¹Ù¿¡ °¡¸é Á¤¸» ³¡³»ÁÖ´Â ¿©¼ºµéÀ» º»ÀûÀÌ Àְŵç¿ä.
What¡¯s the story there? ¾î¶»°Ô µÈ°Ç°¡¿ä?
Jobs I should look out for? ƯÁ¤ÇÑ Á÷¾÷´ë¸¦ ã¾ÆºÁ¾ß Çϳª¿ä?
Everyone knows - lawyer, investment banker, doctor. º¯È£»ç, ÅõÀÚ°¡, ÀÇ»çµîµîÀº ´Ùµé ¾Æ´Â°Å°í¿ä.
How much do those guys really make? ±× »ç¶÷µéÀº ½ÇÁ¦·Î ¾ó¸¶³ª ¹úÁÒ?
And where do they hang out? ±×¸®°í ±× »ç¶÷µéÀº ¾îµð¼ º¸Åë ³îÁÒ?
Where do the hedge fund guys hang out? ÇìÁöÆݵ尡Áö°í ³ë´Â »ç¶÷µéÀº ¾îµð¼ ³ë³Ä°í¿ä.
How you decide marriage vs. just a girlfriend? °áÈ¥°ú ¿©ÀÚÄ£±¸¿ÍÀÇ Â÷À̸¦ ¾î¶»°Ô ±¸ºÐÇϳª¿ä?
I am looking for MARRIAGE ONLY Àü °áÈ¥¸¸ ¿øÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Please hold your insults - I¡¯m putting myself out there in an honest way. Àý ºñ³ÇÏÁö ¸¶¼¼¿ä. Àü ¾ÆÁÖ Á¤Á÷ÇÏ°Ô ¸»ÇÏ´Â °Ì´Ï´Ù.
Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I¡¯m being up front about it. Á¤¸» ÀÌ»Û ¿©ÀÚµéÀº ³»¼þ ¶·´Ï´Ù. Àü ÃÖ¼ÒÇÑ ´ë³õ°í ¸»ÇÏÀݾƿä.
I wouldn¡¯t be searching for these kind of guys if I wasn¡¯t able to match them - in looks, culture, sophistication, and keeping a nice home and hearth. Á¦°¡ ±×·± ¿©ÀÚµéÇÏ°í ºñ±³Çؼ ¿Ü¸ð³ª, ¹®È³ª, öÇÐÀ̳ª, Áýº¸±â³ª µû¶æÇÑ ¸¶À½¿¡ µÚÁø´Ù¸é ºÎÀÚ ³²ÀÚµéÀ» ãÁöµµ ¾ÊÀ»°Ì´Ï´Ù.
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Dear Pers-431649184: 431649184¾¾¿¡°Ô...
I read your posting with great interest and have thought- meaningfully about your dilemma. ´ç½Å ±ÛÀ» Èï¹ÌÀÖ°Ô Àоú°í, ´ç½ÅÀÌ Ã³ÇÑ µô·¹¸¶¿¡ ´ëÇØ ÀǹÌÀÖ´Â »ý°¢À» ÇغýÀ´Ï´Ù.
I offer the following analysis of your predicament. ´ç½ÅÀÇ °í¹Î¿¡ ´ëÇØ ´ÙÀ½°ú °°Àº ºÐ¼®À» ÇØ µå¸®°Ú½À´Ï´Ù.
Firstly, I¡¯m not wasting your time, I qualify as a guy who fits your bill; that is I make more than $500K per year. ÀÏ´Ü Àúµµ ´ç½Å ½Ã°£ ³¶ºñÇÏ°í ½ÍÁö ¾Ê½À´Ï´Ù. Àü ´ç½ÅÀÌ Ã£´Â ³²ÀÚÁß¿¡ ÇϳªÀÔ´Ï´Ù. Àúµµ Àϳ⿡ 5¾ï ÀÌ»óÀ» ¹ý´Ï´Ù.
That said here¡¯s how I see it. ±×¸®°í Á¦ ÀÇ°ßÀ» ¸»¾¸µå¸®ÁÒ.
Your offer, from the prospective of a guy like me, is plain and simple a crappy business deal. Àú°°Àº »ç¶÷µéÀÌ º¸±â¿¡ ´ç½ÅÀÌ Á¦½ÃÇÑ°Ç ´Ü¼øÇÏ°í ¾ûÅ͸® ºñÁö´Ï½º °Å·¡ÀÔ´Ï´Ù.
Here¡¯s why. ÀÌÀ¯¸¦ ¸»¾¸µå¸®ÁÒ.
Cutting through all the B.S., what you suggest is a simple trade: ºùºù µ¹¸®Áö ¾Ê°í ¸»¾¸µå¸®ÁÒ. ´ç½ÅÀÌ Á¦¾ÈÇÑ°Ç °£´ÜÇÑ ±³È¯ÀÔ´Ï´Ù:
you bring your looks to the party and I bring my money. ´ç½ÅÀº ÆÄƼ¿¡ ¿Ü¸ð¸¦ °¡Áö°í ¿À¸é, Àü µ·À» °¡Áö°í ¿À´Â°ÅÁÒ.
Fine, simple. °£´ÜÇÏÁÒ.
But here¡¯s the rub, your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity¡¦in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won¡¯t be getting any more beautiful! ¿©±â¼ ¸¶ÂûÀÌ »ý±â´Â °Ì´Ï´Ù. ´ç½ÅÀÇ ¿Ü¸ð´Â °¥¼ö·Ï ½ÃµéÇØÁú²¨°í, Á¦ µ·Àº ¿µ¿øÇÏ°ÚÁÒ. ¾Æ´Ï, »ç½Ç ¿ÀÈ÷·Á ¹Ì·¡¿¡ µ·À» ´õ ¸¹ÀÌ ¹ú È®·üÀÌ ÀÖÁö¸¸, ´ç½ÅÀÇ ¿Ü¸ð°¡ ´õ ÀÌ»µÁú È®·üÀº Àý´ë ¾ø½À´Ï´Ù.
So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset. Áï, °æÁ¦¿ë¾î·Î ¼³¸íÇÏÀÚ¸é ´ç½ÅÀº °¨°¡»ó°¢ÀÇ ÀÚ»êÀÌ°í, Àü Áõ°¡ÇÏ´Â ÀÚ»êÀÔ´Ï´Ù.
Not only are you a depreciating asset, your depreciation accelerates! ´ç½ÅÀº ±×³É °¨°¡»ó°¢ÀÌ ¾Æ´Õ´Ï´Ù. °¥¼ö·Ï °¨°¡»ó°¢ÀÇ °¡¼ÓÀÌ ÀÌ·ç¾î Áö´Â°ÅÁÒ!
Let me explain, you¡¯re 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. ¼³¸íÇØ µå¸®ÁÒ. ´ç½ÅÀº 25»ìÀÌ°í, ¾ÕÀ¸·Î 5³âÁ¤µµ´Â ²Ï À̴̻ܰϴÙ. ÇÏÁö¸¸ ¸Å³â Á¶±Ý¾¿ ÁÙ¾îµé°ÚÁÒ.
Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you! ±×¸®°í ³ª¼± ºü¸¥ ¼Óµµ·Î ¾Çȵ˴ϴÙ. 35»ì Á¤µµ µÇ¸é °ÅÀÇ ´Ù ½Ãµé¾ú°ÚÁÒ.
So in Wall Street terms, we would call you a trading p!osition, not a buy and hold¡¦hence the rub¡¦marriage. ±×·¯´Ï ¿ù ½ºÆ®¸®½º ¿ë¾î·Î ¸»Çϸé, ´ç½ÅÀº ¸Å°¢ÀÇ ´ë»óÀÌÁö, ±¸¸Å³ª ÀúÃàÀÇ ´ë»óÀÌ ¾Æ´Õ´Ï´Ù. ±×·¡¼ °áÈ¥À̶ó´Â °³³ä°ú ¸¶ÂûÀ» ÀÏÀ¸Å°´Â °Ì´Ï´Ù.
It doesn¡¯t make good business sense to ¡°buy you¡± (which is what you¡¯re asking) so I¡¯d rather lease. °á±¹ ´ç½ÅÀ» "»ç´Â"(´ç½ÅÀÌ ¿øÇÏ´Â °ÅÁÒ)°Ç º°·Î ÁÁÀº °æ¿µ¼¾½º°¡ ¾Æ´Ï´Ï, ±×³É ¸®½º(lease:´ë¿©)ÇÏ´Â°Ô ³·½À´Ï´Ù.
In case you think I¡¯m being cruel, I would say the following. Á¦°¡ ÀÜÀÎÇÏ´Ù°í »ý°¢ÇÒÁöµµ ¸ð¸£´Ï ÀÌ·¸°Ô ¸»¾¸µå¸®ÁÒ.
If my money were to go away, so would you, so when your beauty fades I need an out. ¾îÂ¥ÇÇ Á¦ µ·ÀÌ ¾ø¾îÁö¸é ´ç½Åµµ Àý ¶°³¯°Ì´Ï´Ù. ±×·¯´Ï ´ç½Å ¿Ü¸ð°¡ ½ÃµéÇØÁö¸é Àúµµ ºüÁ®³ª¿Í¾ß °ÚÁÒ.
It¡¯s as simple as that. °£´ÜÇÑ °Ì´Ï´Ù.
So a deal that makes sense is dating, not marriage. ±×·¯´Ï µ¥ÀÌÆ®´Â µÇµµ °áÈ¥Àº ÁÁÀº °Å·¡°¡ ¾Æ´Õ´Ï´Ù.
Separately, I was taught early in my career about efficient markets. ¶ÇÇÑ º°°³·Î, Àü ¿¹Àü¿¡ "È¿À²ÀûÀÎ ½ÃÀå¿ø¸®"¿¡ ´ëÇØ ¹è¿ü½À´Ï´Ù.
So, I wonder why a girl as ¡°articulate, classy and spectacularly beautiful¡± as you has been unable to find your sugar daddy. ±×·¡¼ ´ç½Å ¸»´ë·Î "¶È¶ÈÇÏ°í ¼¼·ÃµÇ°í ¾Æ¸§´Ù¿ì½Å" ¿©¼ººÐÀÌ ¿Ö ¾ÆÁ÷µµ ³²Æí°¨À» ãÁö ¸øÇß´ÂÁö ±Ã±ÝÇϱº¿ä.
I find it hard to believe that if you are as gorgeous as you say you are that the $500K hasn¡¯t found you, if not only for a tryout. ´ç½ÅÀÌ Á¤¸» 5¾ïÀÇ °¡Ä¡°¡ ÀÖ´Â Á¤µµ·Î ´ë´ÜÇÑ ¿©¼ºÀ̶ó¸é, 5¾ï ÀÌ»ó ¹ö´Â ³²¼ºµéÀÌ ÃÖ¼ÒÇÑ "ÀÏ´Ü ½Ãµµ"¶óµµ Çغ¸Áö ¾Ê¾ÒÀ» ¸®°¡ ¾ø½À´Ï´Ù.
By the way, you could always find a way to make your own money and then we wouldn¡¯t need to have this difficult conversation. ±Ùµ¥, ´ç½ÅÀÌ ½º½º·Î ±×·± Á¤µµÀÇ µ·À» ¹ú ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù¸é, ÀÌ·± ¾î·Á¿î ´ëȸ¦ ÇÏ°í ÀÖÀ» ÇÊ¿äµµ ¾øÀ»°Ì´Ï´Ù.
With all that said, I must say you¡¯re going about it the right way. Classic ¡°pump and dump.¡± ÀÌ·¸°Ô ¸»ÇßÁö¸¸, ´ç½ÅÀÌ Á¦´ë·ÎµÈ Àü·«À» ¼¼¿ì°í ÀÖ´Ù°í´Â ¸»¾¸ µå¸± ¼ö ÀÖ°Ú±º¿ä. °íÀüÀûÀÎ "´Ù »Ì¾Æ³½ ÈÄ Â÷¹ö·Á¶ó"½ÄÀÇ ²É¹ìÀü·«ÀÔ´Ï´Ù.
I hope this is helpful, and if you want to enter into some sort of lease, let me know. ÀÌ°Ô µµ¿òÀÌ µÇ¼ÌÀ¸¸é ÁÁ°Ú½À´Ï´Ù. ±×¸®°í ¸¸¾à "¸®½º"°Å·¡¿¡ °ü½ÉÀÌ ÀÖÀ¸½Ã¸é ¿¬¶ô ÁÖ¼¼¿ä
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